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Am I Promiscuous of Just on a Rebound? City Life – Reading Analysis

Aug 15th, 2008 by

Dear Gypsies! Have a break at the GYPSY CAFÉ… Corrine came to see me the other day with a very honest question. Her boyfriend of four years left her a few months ago, and she threw herself into a mad sexual whirl: young men came and went in and out of her life, some stayed for a few days, some for a few hours. At first, the men were there as a diversion to dull the pain, but now Corrine fears that promiscuity is no longer just a shield from the pain but a source of sexual confidence and a way of life that she may not want to give up for a while.

“Initially, the men distracted me from facing the change that had happened in my life. But now I feel comfortable with this lifestyle. The problem is that my friends keep on telling me to stop because they feel what I am doing is wrong. They feel that my life now is morally questionable. What do the cards say? Am I really promiscuous, or is it just a phase?”

I took out my Gypsy cards and laid out first the Triangle spread, and then the Challenge & Outcome spread (see book). In both spreads Death indicated the recent change in Corrine’s life, and Desire showed her current sexual momentum. Constancy said that this period in her life was necessary in order to find her next path, and Misfortune showed that once the flames have burnt out, change will be imminent.

Corrine started to think about what she felt and what her friends were telling her. Through the Gypsy cards she realized that we welcome different phases and episodes into our lives in hopes of finding spiritual completeness. That is why a period of monogamy can be followed by a period of promiscuity and vice versa, depending on our current spiritual needs. We all have seen monogamous people suddenly go wild, and promiscuous people embrace monogamy with joy and anticipation. Corrine realized that there was no right or wrong path, only compatibility with the path that lay before us.

Corrine also understood the message of the Misfortune card: once the flames burn out on their own, we are ready for a new path. Once our current energies are exhausted, we will instinctively feel the need to gravitate towards the next thing that will make us feel complete. A period of laziness and inertia is usually followed by a passionate expression of creativity and talent, just like after a period of crazy self-expression, we crave stability and peace. Life is beautiful when we embrace its unpredictable fluctuations with our elementary confidence in ourselves.

Through the Gypsy cards Corrine learnt that we all are living through periods that we have instinctively embraced to feel complete. Our current phase is a personal choice, and as long as it does not harm either us or others, it cannot be judged: it is a personal attempt to find completeness.

The Gypsy cards’ advice to Corrine: listen to yourself because no one knows what would be the best for you; we all are at different stages of spiritual needs and development; what is right and easy for one may destroy another. Your phase is your personal choice that you have embraced in hopes of finding spiritual completeness and peace. You will instinctively feel when you are ready to move on in a different direction. And that will be an honest and your most productive choice.

Esther Gombor, a Hungarian-born romantic, has managed to finally dispel the mysteries surrounding her own life and everyone else’s who has asked for her help. She is the author of the book: Fortune Telling with Gypsy cards; Dispel the Mysteries Surrounding Life and Romance. Her fabulous guide to reading illustrated fortune telling cards is the crystallized essence of her native Hungarian culture, her extensive traveling throughout Europe and her Master’s degree in Italian Medieval and Renaissance literature. Although she lives in Toronto, Canada, where she writes, she spends most of her summers in her native country to keep on researching more secrets for her next book.

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